Weddings

 

We are honoured and delighted to be asked about being part of family celebrations like Weddings and Christenings.

There is a Church of England Parish for everyone in England, and you have the right to a wedding, a christening, (and indeed a funeral), in your parish church.  To find your parish church click here to go to the Diocesan Map or click here to go to A Church Near You  http://www.achurchnearyou.com/

Click here to go to the national Church of England website to learn more about weddings, christenings and funerals http://www.churchofengland.org/weddings-baptisms-funerals.aspx

 

Weddings   

Marriage is a serious, lifelong, commitment.  We believe that in the faithful perseverance of marriage God gives us His grace, and we come to understand something about His commitment to us. 

Because marriage is the foundation of family life, and family life is the foundation of society, there are laws about marriage - who you cannot marry, where and when you can marry, etc. 

Different Churches have policies about how and when they do Weddings.  Please talk to your Vicar before making firm arrangements.  There will usually be some Marriage preparation : we know that Marriage has its tough moments and although there is no 'recipe' we do think we have some answers.  

Click here to learn more about what the Church of England says about Weddings
http://www.churchofengland.org/weddings-baptisms-funerals/weddings.aspx

Click here to go to the Church of England's special website about Weddings
http://www.yourchurchwedding.org/

 

Downloads from us to help you planning your wedding

Getting married in ChurchGetting married in Church
File size  43kb    File date 23 Apr 2014
Suggested Wedding hymnsSuggested Wedding hymns
File size  37kb    File date 23 Apr 2014
Suggested Wedding readings and prayersSuggested Wedding readings and prayers
File size  51kb    File date 23 Apr 2014

 

Legalities

Because a wedding affects everyone - the couple, their families, the whole of society - there are legalities around when and where you can be married as well as who you can marry. 

Where can I get married?  Changes

In July 2007, the General Synod (the Church of England's governing body) approved steps to widen the wedding regulations; these come into effect on the 1st October 2008.  The regulations are designed to make it easier for couples to get married in a church that has special meaning to them.

The link with a particular church is called a qualifying connection.  Examples are:

  • their local parish
  • the parish where they were baptised and/or confirmed
  • a parish they have lived in for 6 months or more, at any time during their lives
  • a parish they have attended worship in for at least 6 months
  • the parish their parents lived or worshipped in (during the child's lifetime)
  • the parish their parents or grandparents were married in.

For more questions and answers about the Marriage Measure click here.

NB when calling banns, there is a new form of words:
"N ... of this parish" should be changed to "N ... of the parish of X who wishes to be married in this church by virtue of his/her connection with this parish"

 

Fees

Fees for weddings and funerals are set by General Synod acting under the authority of Parliament.

For fees for this year, click here

For guidance from the National Church about fees, click here

To go to Downloads of the guidance from the Archdeacons about fees click here

 

Marriage of Foreign (Non-EU) Nationals

As a result of the Immigration Act 2014, any marriage involving a person from outside the European Economic Area cannot be conducted on the basis of banns or a common (surrogate's) licence - but only with a Superintendent Registrar's Certificate.  

Please download the document below for detailed advice. 

Immigration Act - Marriage GuidanceImmigration Act - Marriage Guidance
File size  102kb    File date 15 Jan 2015

If in any doubt, please contact the Registrar.